Swallowing a breakup is about as pleasant as trying to swallow a cup full of nails. Nearly impossible and it hurts. I know. I've had my share of the breakup pain. When my ex left me, I thought my world was over. But it wasn't. A breakup doesn't mean a relationship is over. If it's something you both truly desire, you can get your ex back.
Any relationship is hard; mine was - especially being in a long-distance relationship that I could only see my love once a month, if even that. The time we had together, though, made us happy and we knew we were in love.
However, the distance was straining; creating tension where it shouldn't exist and errors aroused on my part that created a chasm. As the earth split beneath me, I stepped on the wrong side to catch my balance and soon we were growing apart.
I was ripped in half. What was I supposed to do without her in my life? She brought understanding and completeness to my heart and yet, with a few foolish moves, I was on the wrong side of the spectrum and needed to find a way back.
Finding that right path was difficult. It takes time and understanding to gain back the trust of a broken heart. With the help of caring friends and family, I was able to make it through the rough times and my heart was eventually reunited with hers.
After more than a year of being back together, I understand the importance of getting back your ex when you still love him/her. Don't give up hope and lean on those that offer a shoulder. Realize who you are and what you want to contribute to your relationship. I know what you're going through and I want to help you get through your tough time.
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